You don’t have to walk through this alone.
Come sit with me for a moment.
This is a place to breathe, remember, and begin again.
"Some seasons are not meant to be survived bravely.
They are meant to be survived honestly.”
"What you lived through matters.
So does the way you’re still here.”
Hey, it’s Stacey.
I’m a writer, a wife, a mother, and a woman who has lived inside chronic illness, trauma, and a nervous system that learned to survive very hard things.
The books I write — starting with Dear John — come from that lived place.
They are letters from inside love, loss, caretaking, and the long, slow work of finding yourself again when life changes everything.
This space exists for readers who find themselves inside those stories and think,
Oh… that’s me.
If you’ve lived with illness, trauma, exhaustion, anxiety, or the quiet grief of a life that didn’t turn out the way you thought it would — you’re not imagining how heavy that is.
Here, you’ll find:
• Books that tell the truth about love, loss, and resilience
• Gentle mini-courses that help you settle your nervous system after reading
• Reflections and resources that help you make sense of what your body has been holding
I don’t believe in fixing people.
I believe in understanding them.
Your nervous system, your symptoms, your overwhelm — they all have stories behind them. And when we listen instead of forcing, something begins to soften.
This isn’t about becoming someone new.
It’s about coming back to who you were before you had to be so strong.
So if you’re here because a book led you,
or because your body led you,
or because you’re simply tired…
Welcome. I am so happy you are here!
Where healing begins with being understood!
The stories I write come from a life shaped by chronic illness, trauma, and grief — but also by love, family, and the stubborn hope that something gentler is still possible. I don’t write because I have answers.
I write because I have lived inside the questions. What happens when your body no longer feels safe?
When love is changed by illness?
When the life you imagined disappears, and you have to build a new one with tired hands and a nervous system that’s been on high alert for too long? These books are a way of telling the truth about that. Not the shiny version.
The real one. Inside these pages — and the small companion offerings that live beside them — we talk about nervous systems, trauma, chronic illness, caregiving, and the quiet courage it takes to keep showing up when you’re exhausted. Not to push yourself.
But to begin listening. Because healing, in my experience, doesn’t start with becoming stronger.
It starts with becoming safer. This space is here for people who want to understand their bodies, their stories, and the ways they learned to survive — so they can slowly, gently begin to live from something steadier. You don’t have to be fixed to belong here.
You just have to be human.
Start Here
If you arrived because a book found you — or because your body finally said enough — this is a gentle place to begin.
The stories in the Dear Collection don’t just tell what happened.
They make space for what’s happening inside you as you read.
Alongside the books, you’ll find small companion offerings — reflections, audio guides, and mini-courses — created to help your nervous system settle, integrate, and feel less alone in what the stories stir up.
Together, they explore things like:
• Becoming aware of what your body is holding
• Learning how to listen to yourself with compassion
• Understanding your nervous system and its patterns
• Noticing when you’re overwhelmed — and how to soften back into safety
• Tending to emotions, exhaustion, and chronic stress
• Building a personal “toolkit” that supports steadier days
• Learning the language of your own yes, no, and maybe
• Making sense of triggers without judging yourself
None of this is about fixing you.
It’s about learning how to live inside yourself with more kindness, clarity, and steadiness — especially after trauma, illness, or long seasons of survival.
You can begin with a book.
You can begin with a small practice.
You can begin right where you are
When you’re ready, there’s more waiting for you.
Small companions to walk beside the stories.
Some stories need a little space to settle.
You’ll find that space here.
The Beginning of my Spiritual Healing Journey
I started my "healing" journey now almost 20 years ago to find peace and to calm the storm inside my body. This is the story of that journey. It started with a book and evolved and changed as I learne... ...more
Trauma Journey
January 21, 2026•5 min read
Mast Cells Gone Wild!!
My journey with Mast Cell Activation Disorder is one of the most traumatic experiences I have ever had but I was and continue to be determined to heal and grow as a human. I accepted my diagnosis but ... ...more
Trauma Journey
July 23, 2024•3 min read
